I really apologize to those of you who used to read my blog regularly. I have been blogging really inconsistently (well not at all) since the school year started. While I realize that it is not much of an excuse considering how busy everyone is, I truly have not had the time to blog with the frequency to which I once did. Heck…I haven’t even been able to read blogs I love to read. I must say thank you to the subtle nudges that I have received in the last few weeks from my friends…calling me…emailing me… gently asking me to surface again. It feels good to be missed…I have missed all of you. Thanks for hanging in with me.
So I am back…back to blogging. I’m not sure it’ll be all that gratifying, though, because I’m mostly writing this entry to let y’all know that the blogging’s going to continue to be light here for the foreseeable future.
One of my reasons for starting this blog was to make the life of a single dad of three somewhat more transparent to the world at large: to give people a better sense of what goes on with my time, the challenges I face, what it’s like to be a single full time dad, and how I got here in the first place. Another reason, of course, was to connect with people outside my usual social universe. While I’ve no idea whether I really succeeded in helping people understand me, there’s no doubt that blogging has helped me meet and talk to some amazing people… thanks for being patient and always supporting…thanks for being here.
As it would be hard to review all the events that have occurred in my blogging sabbatical…I will try to summarize and catch you up. My journey over the last month has been a bit crazy…
· School started. Three kids. All new schools. All new routines. I have to work remotely two days a week just to get it all done
· I got a promotion at work. More responsibility. Some travel. Not much more $$.
· My youngest started really verbalizing and acting out her emotions about her mother’s death. Back to grief counseling. Tomorrow she turns five, yet her emotions are like those of a three year old.
· I met a woman…a really great, intelligent, sexy single mom of two…an engineer…the real deal…a keeper. So we are dating…exclusively.
All in all life has been good. I really can’t or won’t complain. Life is going at break neck pace and I am trying to keep it all together…without adding too much to the chaos.
I’ll be back… I miss sharing… I miss the fellowship.

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September 19, 2008 at 12:21 am
singlemomseeking
Whew, just glad you’re okay. Don’t worry us like that! You know how mothers can be… I was just about to email QT Mama and ask, “Have ya heard from him?”
Good for your for getting support — for yourself and your kids.
Congrats on the promotion.
September 19, 2008 at 2:16 am
SingleParentDad
Wow.
I’d only just started reading prior to your sabbatical, I did wonder if it was something I said!
Thus I love forward to acquainting myself as you reacquaint with others.
Welcome back.
September 19, 2008 at 4:33 am
T
There you are!!!!
I’m so glad to know you are ok. That’s all I needed to know.
And that woman that you’re dating? She’s a lucky lady.
Big hugs!
September 19, 2008 at 9:08 am
Exception
He, glad that everything is okay!
Great about the lady… woohoo…
And your daughter – my thoughts go out to her. I imagine it is a difficult time for her.
Have a great weekend!
September 19, 2008 at 1:38 pm
Kitkat4real (SOLO dot MOM aka THUMBNAIL Glimpse)
Finally! We have missed you. Good to hear about your relationship… this gives us all hope. Please do keep up the blogging so we can hear how the counseling goes with your 5 year old. You have amazing challenges and we do consider you one of our heroes!
Have a great weekend.
Glad to have you back.
September 19, 2008 at 8:25 pm
Susan
Thanks for the update. I can relate to the busy parent/back to school-work-life-balance craziness part. So glad to hear, too, that you are enjoying a fulfilling relationship. Keep us posted…when you can! We’ll be here.
September 22, 2008 at 8:43 pm
Nicole-Mommy2Jl
You’re finally back!!
I was beginning to wonder what happened to you lol
Glad you’re back!
September 24, 2008 at 5:35 am
Roads
Just found this site, just as your life takes off again.
So here’s wishing you good luck. It’s a challenge being a lone father, and great that you are finding some company to share the journey.
Best wishes from London.
September 24, 2008 at 2:23 pm
dadshouse
Oh, I love stories when people meet. A sexy engineer – a keeper. Love it!
September 29, 2008 at 12:11 pm
Vinnie Sorce
Totally understandable dude, you’re talking to the right crowd about time. I’m lucky to write once a week these days.
September 30, 2008 at 10:25 am
QTMama
STRANGER DANGER STRANGER DANGER!
Oh, it’s you! THERE YOU ARE.
Glad you’re back, and don’t be such a stranger babydoll. Happy for you on the girl, you deserve it.
April 21, 2009 at 11:16 pm
T
Hello?? I hear nothing but crickets chirping in here. Where are yooooouuuu??
Bring it baby.